Ever wondered what the vibrator buzz is all about? They made an entire episode out of it in The Sex and the City, Oprah can’t stop gushing about it, sex shops seem to be overflowing with these phallic toys and yet all you have managed is to get yourself a Rabbit Vibrator. If it is still lying in the box it came in, and has not seen the light of day much, it is time you took out your new sex toy and played around with it a bit!
It might be a little overwhelming at first, like all mechanical contraptions are, but there is no vibrator on earth that won’t buzz you in the right places with a little bit of advice. So whip out your new toy, insert some fresh batteries (in case of a rechargeable vibe, plug in the cord and set it to charge) and get it buzzing! And if you are still wondering where to begin and how, here are some ways to say Hello to your vibrator and get it to give you those leg shaking orgasms you’ve only heard about till now.
1. Choosing the Right Vibrator
There are a number of vibrators out there in the market, and every sex toy shop stocks a wide variety of them. It is very easy to get confused about the type you want to buy. There are clitoral vibrators, G spot vibrators and then there are the ones that combine the best of both worlds. The clitoris is the powerhouse of sensations with 8000 nerve endings packed into that little nub of flesh.
Most women get their orgasms from stimulating the clitoris alone, so if you want your first vibe to be a clitoral massager, it is perfectly alright. Clitoral vibes have a smaller head compared to the G spot ones, and if you want a dual stimulation, get a Rabbit Vibrator.
2. Getting To Know Your New Toy
Most vibrators come with an instruction manual that is pretty self explanatory. Some have an extra leaflet included inside the box, and some have the instructions printed on the back of the box. Read the instructions carefully to understand the controls. Some vibes have a one touch button that will help you filter through all the settings, patterns and speeds while some have separate buttons for changing the patterns and speeds.
It is easier to familiarise yourself with the controls before you start using it, so you don't have to fumble around for the right button with the toy buzzing inside you.
Find out the type of batteries that your vibrator needs; there are usually two types of batteries used. AA and AAA batteries. The AAA batteries are smaller and slimmer than the AA batteries and deliver lesser power than the Double A ones. However, both types of batteries deliver the same amount of voltage. Remember to get the right size batteries for your vibrator. There is nothing more frustrating than a dead vibrator, that too because you got the wrong cells.
Find out the type of batteries that your vibrator needs; there are usually two types of batteries used. AA and AAA batteries. The AAA batteries are smaller and slimmer than the AA batteries and deliver lesser power than the Double A ones. However, both types of batteries deliver the same amount of voltage. Remember to get the right size batteries for your vibrator. There is nothing more frustrating than a dead vibrator, that too because you got the wrong cells.
3. Get A Few Test Runs
If you are just warming up to using vibrators, and never owned one before, begin slowly. Getting to know the rhythm and settings of the vibrator, familiarising yourself with the intensity of the vibrations and using the toy on other parts of your body will help you when you are finally ready to use it on your clitoris and G spot. Run the vibrator on different parts of your body like the arms, legs, neck, inner thighs, stomach - basically anywhere you feel like. The vibrator can act as a terrific massager and relax your muscles.
Some vibrators spring to life suddenly with strong vibrations making it uncomfortable the first time. Once you have understood how your vibe works, using it on your erogenous zones will be a cakewalk.
Even if you are planning to use the vibrator with your partner, it is always a good idea to test run it yourself first. With the acquired knowledge about your pleasure device, you can then guide your partner and have them use it on you exactly the way it gets you going.
4. Find a Quiet Place and Get Comfortable
It isn't a happy feeling if someone walks in on you while you are on the verge of a shattering orgasm. If there are other people living with you, lock the door of your room and get comfortable. The best way to explore yourself and use a vibrator is to lie on your back in a comfortable place. It’s best if you are on a bed or a lying on your couch. Use a mirror if you have to fumble around too much.
5. Try Out Different Settings And Pressure
Every woman is different and each one orgasms differently. Some like it slow and soft while some like to keep their vibe on the highest setting to climax. Try out what you like best - experiment with the amount of pressure you apply to your clitoris and G-spot, flip through the different settings and pulsations, and also alternate the intensity with which you like to pump the vibrator in and out of you.
Remember, everyone has their own pleasure points, and everyone orgasms differently. The trick is to find your own. Vibrators are great toys for masturbation as well as couple play, and can be used in versatile ways to spice up your play time.
Remember, everyone has their own pleasure points, and everyone orgasms differently. The trick is to find your own. Vibrators are great toys for masturbation as well as couple play, and can be used in versatile ways to spice up your play time.
They are easy to store as well, so you can just stash it inside your toy box and keep it in a secret corner of your closet!
